GreatEx wrote:
Traveller86 wrote:
A bunch of arrogant, elitist know it alls who think they’re the sole authority on all things Carlton.
One in particular has made some laughably deluded predictions over the last 18 months which have seen the total, horrific opposite outcomes, yet continue to double down on their toxic positivity towards all things Carlton.
And they have the audacity to try and silence those who ask questions and actually notice that things are very, very bad at the club right now.
I assume you're having a pop at Bondi primarily, but I am also one who makes consciously optimistic predictions that don't work out. Perhaps there's something about being outside the Melbourne bubble that gives us a less doom-spiralled mindset - sinners is also inclined towards positivity, and Sydders... well, he's a special chap isn't he

- but I feel that supporting a football club is an act of faith and loyalty, and it does me no good to wallow in cynicism and self pity - there's enough of that in the world.
In either case, no matter how passionately we argue for a bit of positive balance, nor how dismissive we can sometimes be to the glass 3/4 empty set, no one is trying to silence anyone else. You can't possibly believe this place lacks negativity, surely?

Of course Trav is referring to me. He's likes to be always right. Problem is, the sky is always falling.
Think about that phrase "Toxic Positivity". Heavy.
What is that all about? Toxic Positivity!
Trav has some serious issues going on between his ears behind that froth and bubble of steam.
I can't recall any prdictions I have made that have been correct or incorrect. Predictions?
Did I ever make the prediction Carlton WILL WIN the flag this year? Carlton WILL win this week?
I can't recall acting like Nostradamus.
What's it to him if I have a positive view on life and football? We is it so distasteful for him? He has his views, I have mine. Anything wrong with that?
I enjoy the highs and lows of footy. For some footy is life and death instead of what it really is: a journey. It is a game that takes you to all parts of your mind. A game of illusions. How you handle yourself in this game, is how you choose to treat yourself.
I love my life. Filled with freedom, adventure, danger, excitement, aesthetics, people, parties, pandemonium. Its all good. Important to know is how to handle it all and what works for you. IMO it is pointless following a team, let alone playing for one if it makes you upset and angry, win or lose. Unless you like to be angry and upset.
When I was U17, I played for a senior team who only won one a game in two seasons, but week in week out, we were all striving for the same goal, to win a game every week. We knew we tried our best because we gave it our all, in fact, we made the Front Page of The Sporting Globe for all the wrong reasons, "Is this Australia's Dirtiest Team", but all to do with trying to win against the unbeatable. Sure we lost but we still patted each other on the back for effort. We just weren't good enough. In my mid 20's I played for a team who were undefeated for 3 years winning Back 2 Back 2 front Flags. Our focus was to win every week. Only difference, we had the cattle to win, and patted each other on the back for effort made to win, and we sang the song for reward. Both experiences were great experiences, in my mind. The game served me well. As for Carlton, between 1968-2001, Carlton gave me my fondest memories of footy because of their success. But the failures were so important too because they highlighted inevitable change. You see, nothing stays the same.Change is inevitable, so you have to go with the flow at times to have some perspective and balance with your POV.
We, Carlton, are heading towards a Premiership, whenever that is; no guarantees. We support the team through thick and thin. We make mistakes, we have a bit of luck, we have a bit of bad luck. There are some facts we look at on a Monday morning like the W and L and ladder position, and look at what went right and what went wrong. Some things can't be fixed during the year nor in one year. That's reality. We look forward to the next challenge. That's life.
There are positives and negatives to be taken from every loss and every win. Its not ALL good and ALL bad. Positives and Negatives. Forces of life. Funny that life works that way. I wouldn't change it for the world, because it can all be fun, if you look at it that way. As for Trav, he comes across as Mr Cloudy Day, basically every day. Sad that he finds positivity "toxic", and not the other way around. He needs to find balance in life's journey. That's up to him.
Things are not as bad as they seem, nor as good as they seem.
Always look at the bright side of life. Cheer up. Go Blues. Always.