Speakers wrote:
It doesn't matter what you say to a young player, if he sees the ball being kicked through the opposition team's goal for the 30th time in a match for the third week running, and he knows he partly contributed to some of these goals being kicked, his confidence will take a hit.
You're a glass is half-empty kinda guy, aren't you speakers? Mate, anyone is going to feel like crap if that's happening to him as well, no matter the age.
Footy is not war. Mistakes don't lead to people dying. Its a game. You pick yourself back up if you hit the ground. Thats life. Its also learning.
This is all pop-psychology from non-experts. All players need to make their debut. Where's the evidence that mistakes at age 17 hurt the individual more than a miskick on debut at 21, with 10kgs more muscle? I'm sure Murphy will play better when he's got more meat on him, but that doesn't mean he can't cope now.
We have no evidence of young players losing confidence so badly that it ruins their careers. We DO however have evidence of young players playing a lot of games at 17, and going on to become great players.
Footballers are not bloody Blanche DuBois, for God's sake. Do you reckon Brett DeLedio hangs around trams a broken man, looking out for the kindness of strangers?
As for this:
Don't you remember the club saying they drafted all the discards because they needed some hard bodies in the side?
The club drafted all those discards because they [REDACTED] up. We finished last a season after those "discards"... gee, hardly an endorsement is it?
Speakers, your negativity is not the right message to spread to a young team. I wonder if Rodney Eade goes out and tells Ryan Griffin that he if flowers up trying to break a tackle, he'll be dropped on the spot and won't get back in for 5 weeks.
NO! he knows his kids have awesome talent, and he backs them in!!! even if they make mistakes!!!! And guess what..... because of the talent, more often than not they reward him!!!!!!!!
This should be our motto:
Be Bold. Run. Take risks. Play your game. You know how to play footy. Mistakes can be corrected. Keep running.
Not your festering negativity.
You're hung up on the definition of loss. Failure is not trying. Failure is getting paid to show up. Failure is not accidentally letting Akermanis past you, and then chasing him for 50 metres, only to just miss the tackle while he snags a goal. Its correcting an error and creating a resolve to get the bastard next time, and to hit the gym so you can stuff him in the dirt next time the opportunity arises.
Failure isn't losing games. Failure is not trying.
With Walker, Murphy, Bentick, Russell etc etc in the side, we won't have to worry about a team not trying.
THATS SUCCESS!!! THATS CARLTON!!!
THEN IN 3 YEARS, WHEN THEY'VE ALL PLAYED BETWEEN 50-100 GAMES... LOOK OUT!!!!! BIGGER, ANGRIER, MEANER.. AND EXPERIENCED!!!
PREMIERSHIP HERE WE COME, AND NAMES LIKE CALLUM CHAMBERS WILL BE DUST!