Blueboy74 wrote:
Living in Adelaide I hope we win.
This is our only game my family can attend for the season. Last year our two matches were infamous in different ways. The 10 goal thrashing to Port at AAMI which started the coaching upheaval and the whole tribe flew over for the Friday night 'Chickenwingate' against Nth.
My son has lived on the AFL Predictor all season. He's ridden the rollercoaster harder than I have, but I find myself now almost living the season through him. Making the finals is almost irrelevant to me, but try telling that to someone who claims the greatest moment in his 9 years so far was being able to attend the 2011 Elimination final.
Last night left me hollow for so many reasons, none more so than the deflation of the now lack of build-up for Saturday's match. 24 hours later I'm slightly more up for it.
I'm sure whatever plans are in place for the off-season wont change on the back of one or two wins if they were to happen.
We - that is the fans - and the media get caught up in ladder positions, but they cant be taken as the be all of where a club is at and there is no more so a glaring example of this than us currently.
Technically we could lose this week, win an Elimination the week after, and finish 6th with a 11-12 record. On the flip side we could lose next week and finish as low as 12th. Six ladder spots difference, but doesn't make the squad any stronger or weaker.
Internally though the plans that I suspect are already in place wont change. MM's been around for 30 years. 3 flags, 6 GF's, Top 4 finishes etc. He's not going to hang his hat on 1 finals win, and label it as any sort of 'success'.
Your boy is you 25 years ago. Me fifty years ago. My dad 80 years ago. He and his dreams and highlights and ladder predictors and joy and sadness are what makes clubs like Carlton great clubs. Every team has them and needs them. He's just the right age to see the next era unfold before his eyes just as you were and I was and my dad was. It's a once in a generation thing it seems with Carlton. You're lucky he's interested. My kids aren't. I think I put them off by being so moody when they lost back then but that doesn't matter now.
I hope you enjoy the game and he does too, win or lose. Out of a loss come individual highlights he can cherish. A Warnock pack mark would be a lifetime memory. (for Warnock, not your son

). My greatest memories of my dad involve our weekly trips to PP and the feverish discussions on the tram home afterwards and the fights with mum about the replay versus Young Talent Time on TV. If we win, tell him he's just seen the start of the big turnaround and will be able to remember it all his life. If we lose, tell him it doesn't matter because when you go next year we're gonna smash them and he will have his new beanie to remember it by. Then sit down with him with the list and give him a big red texta and the footy record and try and second guess the de-listings. You can make the footy season last forever with a young boy like me or you or him. But I'm sure you already know all that. Cut me some slack. I'm just reliving a bit of my childhood through your post...