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| Author: | bluegirl72 [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 7:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Five Stages Of Grief |
1. Denial — We won didn't we?We were 30 points up. 2. Anger — Sack the coach ..sack the players..sack the assistant coach 3. Bargaining —The trade talk begins. 4. Depression —(quote from Elizabeth Kuebler Ross) It is not recommended to attempt to cheer an individual up that is in this stage. It is an important time for grieving that must be processed. 5. Acceptance — Ok we lost...but... We actually did really well this year,met our goals,and can expect great things next year. So which stage are you at right now? |
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| Author: | tap in 79 [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 7:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Anger- not the right moves in last quarter, needed more run. Anger at Judd being continually held onto prior to ruck contests, anger at the contribution from certain players. Anger pretty much sums up how I feel. Acceptance? don't think i will reach that one.  Still stuck in anger mixed in with a bit of disappointment, with a sprinking of denial. |
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| Author: | Blue Blood Believer [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 7:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Probably around 3 atm. Just dont know who i would trade? T-Bird is the only one that other teams would want but there is no way i would trade him. Lucky i dont have to make those decisions. |
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| Author: | Jez1966 [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 8:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Currently in 4 but slowly moving to 5. Bring on 2010 
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| Author: | PD'sPC [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 9:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Nah, already at 5- I feel the loss, as painful it was, will be the best thing for our rather laconic group. Sometimes, we can't just manufacture intensity in this group; it has to be "lived" (for want of a better description!)
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| Author: | Virgin Blue [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 12:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
I skipped denial and went straight to anger. |
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| Author: | Blues Forever [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 1:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
3. I love trade week and the draft. |
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| Author: | bluegirl72 [ Thu Sep 10, 2009 4:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
I think anger will come back if Lions beat dogs..cos I'll think it should've been us. If Dogs win,I'll think,we could have beaten 'em...it should have been us. Either way...It should've been us. I'll have to claw my way back to stage 5 post this weekend.  Darn. |
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| Author: | BlueLulu [ Thu Sep 10, 2009 4:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Stage 5, but really really disappointed with the last 15 minutes in the final quarter  I'm sure it will hit home this weekend watching the other teams play and we are not there... f$@#&n hell! Bring on next year!!!
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| Author: | bluegirl72 [ Thu Sep 10, 2009 4:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Hell yeah Bluelulu! Tipping there was no dancin' on the bartops this year either eh? |
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| Author: | BlueLulu [ Thu Sep 10, 2009 4:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Not this year BG!  I will be going on a very strict diet and working out religiously to be in peak form and ready for the Grand final in 2010!! Wish me luck 
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| Author: | SparkyBlue [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 12:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Been through so much in the past 7 years this doesn't even register... This isn't grief. This is like "missing out on the last potato cake at the fish and chip shop" kind of grief... |
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| Author: | fraser murphy [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 12:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Don't you mean scallop? |
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| Author: | Pafloyul [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 2:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
SparkyBlue wrote: Been through so much in the past 7 years this doesn't even register... This isn't grief. This is like "missing out on the last potato cake at the fish and chip shop" kind of grief... Yep, I don't get it. I was more devastated by some of the unconvincing wins (the result of a failure to rebuild) post 95. You reap what you sow. |
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| Author: | Pafloyul [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 2:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
fraser murphy wrote: Don't you mean scallop? What planet are you from? 
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| Author: | anfield [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 3:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Still stuck at stage 4 |
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| Author: | Drewgirl [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 3:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
I keep on saying, I would have been at the game tonight had we gosh darn it won. I would have been so excited. I will be over it much better, if Collingwood get kicked out this week. And yeh, if Brisbane lost it would be nice. |
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| Author: | 99prelim [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 7:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
Mark my words, the best thing that came out of last Sat was Judd's 3 weeks. Ratts needs to coach without relying on 'the champ' and the midfielders need to step up. Fantastic 3 week lesson for all. Hopefully, out of the experimentation, we unearth something new. |
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| Author: | SparkyBlue [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 8:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
99prelim wrote: Mark my words, the best thing that came out of last Sat was Judd's 3 weeks. Ratts needs to coach without relying on 'the champ' and the midfielders need to step up. Fantastic 3 week lesson for all. Hopefully, out of the experimentation, we unearth something new. Nice thinking. Good positive to pull out of it. A few weeks with Judd getting match fitness in the pre-season comp, then throw the young midfielders into the deep end - see how they go. Maybe sub Betts for Judd. Good one. |
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| Author: | jim [ Sat Sep 12, 2009 2:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Five Stages Of Grief |
99prelim wrote: Mark my words, the best thing that came out of last Sat was Judd's 3 weeks. Ratts needs to coach without relying on 'the champ' and the midfielders need to step up. Fantastic 3 week lesson for all. Hopefully, out of the experimentation, we unearth something new. Yes, there's certainly something to that, especially on top of the hurt etched on their face.I went straight to 5. As much as it hurt if we got to a PF with all the deficiencies we showed in Brisbane it may have covered our defiencies looking to next year, as self-satisfaction, "over-achievement" does. The absolute pain of that type of loss will hit home that they need to be worked on. As much as I hated it, it might've been the exact type of loss we had to have. It might be the catalyst to something much bigger. |
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