TheBluesMuse wrote:
bluegirl72 wrote:
KK..you may be right...I don't know.
However,personally i think handcuffing a kid is assault..even in this context,because he is not truly free to make a decision,for reasons i expressed earlier.
Whether that would hold up in court is another matter.
Obviously the old school bonding culture still resonates with some of our posters.
Do you think differently if you have a teenager of your own? It could be that...orjust my female point of view...I don't know..but it makes me sad that people think thio kind of thing is good.
I think it should be completely seperate from AfL clubs and how they celebrate.
I'm of the superior sex too bg

My experience with alcohol over the years with my group of buddies has always been positive.....it has some great qualities.....it allows you to loosen up and really strike up a report among your mates share things without inhibition...it helps you bond.
That's why I don't ever object to a large group of young men getting on the turps to see which one has the biggest feathers....which one can impress the group the most....and which one can be laughed at or led astray the easiest. It's about pecking order, finding your role in amongst that group. It's normal, natural, and I believe beneficial.
If this group of players achieves what I hope it will, they will have a tight bond that i as a women will never understand and something that some blokes on here will never have experienced. Levi will stick up for that very bloke who initiated him, that very bloke he was handcuffed to with no thought whatsoever cos he'll love him as one of his best mates ever.
Go Blues.
Hi BM,
thanks for your thoughts.
I didn't agree with anything you wrote except the last line (go blues)

so it's not a female thing!
Honestly,I hung out 24/7 with men in bands,in recording studios..before that with 3 of em invading my growing up space,and no sisters...sure the boys in the bands drank...some..not all..cos they thought for themselves...err...some of them...but it was through music that we all bonded...not booze and women for them..it was the timeless moments that counted...and surely its playing great footy together..moving as one giant beastie that will cement them...long after the hangovers...?
its just another point of view.
Drunken name calling followed by hugs and...aww..geez you know i love you's is not the same as really bonding..errr...is it?
geez...this v's day is way too weird..thank God I'm going for a romantic dinner.
